If you have a
boyfriend and he has a small penis, and if this is an issue for you, then there
are a number of options on how to deal with this and what to do.
It's
understandable that size may be a concern for you. Penis size has a number of
issues surrounding it. You may not be getting sexually satisfied the way you
should. He may not be as confident and as exciting in bed as he could be due to
his lack of confidence regarding size.
Let's look at
how to deal with your boyfriend having a small penis from a variety of
different angles:
1. Length VS
Thickness. Initially you may think your boyfriend has a small penis due to his
lack of length But are you aware that when it comes to sexual satisfaction it
is actually the thickness or girth that matters? It can be very deceiving and
many women may write off a guy when they don't see a decent sized stick as far
as length goes. But pay attention to width and you may be surprised at how well
stimulation can be from someone who is girthier rather than lengthier.
2. Does size
really matter? A lot of size issues can be visual based. Don't knock your
boyfriend right away for size issues. Sex may still be great and there are
always other, more sexually pleasing ways to be intimate with one another. As
mentioned before, if anything it is the girth issue that matters most for many
women who have reported back on the age old question of "does penis size
matter?"
3. Focus on his
confidence. Sometimes the girlfriend could care less about size, and instead it
is the boyfriend who becomes totally consumed with his penis size, believing he
is not adequate enough. This can lead to real big problems in the bedroom. If
his confidence is down, his performance will be down. Sex will be dull and he
probably won't even last long enough if he isn't confident enough. Try to
assure him that size isn't an issue and it's his lack of confidence and his
attachment to his size issues that is the real problem.
4. Look at the
positive aspects of his size. Some women actually prefer a smaller, more
manageable size when it comes to sex. And a lot of women flat out prefer
smaller size when it comes to giving oral sex. You can do much more and it is
much more sexually comfortable when you are dealing with less than average size
as far as oral goes. Looking towards the positive helps both him and you out a
lot
5. Tell him
about "jelqing". This is an exercise that guys have been doing to
increase their penis size. It's an actually technique that he can do every day,
and it usually takes several weeks for results to kick in. Getting him bigger
can do two things: jack up his confidence levels and provide you with the size
you desire for sexual fulfillment. If you are really committed to your
boyfriend, you could even help him with the exercises (they basically involve
slowly massaging the lubricated penis repeatedly while in a semi-erect state).
Sometimes
girlfriends will help their guy do a jelqing session, and in return he will
give his girlfriend a nice, long back massage. Helping your boyfriend out can
motivate him more and force him to be more consistent with doing the exercises.
Jelqing results usually depend most on consistency and motivation, along with
patience as it does take several weeks for size.
Here is a great
jelqing routine to get your boyfriend on. It's an easy to implement 2 step
process which can lead to both increased length, as well as increased girth
size. He can do it on his own, or you can assist (in exchange for a back
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surprise him with the routine. That is providing him the routine and he can get
started on it. It's a great way to bring up his confidence, while meeting your
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